10 Steps to Die Happily #2: By Initiation
As my own promise to myself in my post Why People Must Die, here is the step #2 (Initiation) as a clue to die happily.
After born (see step 1: 10 Steps to Die Happily (1)), I was growing. I need some social circumstance to get my maximum growth. To get in to that social class I need some initiation event. Since I was born in Christian circumstance I was baptized. It event set off me as a Christian. As a Christian, I know it thoughts there. I grow in it.
It seems like no end of my live in this step. I play, happy, sad, grow, etc. in it guidance. I don’t know about the end of my own existence yet. I don’t really know what the struggles are. I just know about playing and happy forever. No sadness there.
That condition takes me care about my own family, brotherhood and neighborhood. They guide me by their own manner to be the real person in it certain social circumstances.
By that way I prepare my self to be the good member in it circumstance. There is a hope to become the right man who needed by that circumstance. It was pushed me to act as good as they want. Finally, I had done all of that to become a man who could die happily in it upcoming days.
By doing the good initiation to the good social circumstance I am going to the happy die.
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Why Locking Your Mouth is Saving Your Life?
When we are talking or make some conversation with other, we never in our 100% mindful. May be only they who in the formal occasion can have their 100% mindful to make a conversation with other people. Why? Because they stumble upon a serious event and it was about whole of their life, too.
What about me? What about you? Doesn’t we in a serious event in our daily? Doesn’t it about whole of our life? Of course we are. That why we should aware about all the words we spread anywhere, everywhere and every time.
The simple idea is “my words is my pray”. Could you imagine how we pray without words? How He/She knows what we want without heard our words/pray? We never know what the rocks wish for. Because it a black rock only, for example. It’s quite simple, doesn’t it? But, not all the pray are need the words.
In our social life, some people like to spread the words. They never thing it can be hurting somebody else. In this case, somebody who was hurt can be the unseen enemies of their life. That why locking our mouth is saving our life.
Finally, by take our words care we become more mature and wise, too. We are learning to listen first and talking if it is needed. And, we are always talking in the Why Plain Speaking.
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Why Plain Speaking?
Plain speaking is say about something frankly. Red is red. Blue is blue. Someone who always made a plain speaking is a truthful person. He/she is a courteous person. But, he/she is not always want by others. Why? Because they were afraid encounter the truths from the plain speaking people.
Why plain speaking?
In business, not all the facts and issues need to say in plain speaking. It’s similar in politic, military and in front of the kids. Than, why plain speaking?
Sometime we need someone make a plain speaking about ourselves. I, myself, need more truths about my life. I need them to say what my weaknesses frankly. Knowing my weaknesses is the way to be a mature person. By laughing my weaknesses I grow in the right direction to be a mature creation.
In this case, I can be a plain speaking one, too. Many brothers and sisters around me need some corrections on their weak behaviors. Here is my contribution to my neighborhood. I can not growing alone. I grow in the growing neighborhood. I need other and vice versa. We are symbiosis mutualism creations.
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